Showing posts with label Janessa Mitchell. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Janessa Mitchell. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Judges and Feedback


Don't think of the judges as scores;
they're people, and you should try
to talk to them.

One of the most frequently discussed aspects of competitive physique sports is the judging. What's the criteria? Why did the competitors place this way? Were there lighting issues? Why didn't this person get called out? I mean the questions can go on for hours, for days; when you have someone that's worked twelve or sixteen weeks for one show, you get bet your bottom dollar that questions will abound!

But while many people are plagued with uncertainty, they don't know what to do about it. Sure you can mope around, your inner circle can lift your spirits, and you can re-think everything you did and what you think went wrong, but at the end of the day - only the judges can tell you why you got the scores and/or call-outs you got. No magazine, website, training guru, or posing expert can get into the minds of the judges on that day and tell you why you got the placing you got. So in this post I ask the champions how they approach the judges.

What works for them might not work for you, but it's worth a try! Remember, the judges are under no obligation to explain their scoring to you - in a just and fair world, every athlete should get that out of respect, but there just isn't the time nor the resources for that.

Remember, the early bird gets the worm. You need to be as proactive with understanding what the judges want, as with your training, nutrition, MARKETING, and supplementation. You bear a HUGE part in whether or not you're successful in the fitness industry. OK, so let's see what the champs have to say - and a big thank you to them for participating!


"I always email the judges within a few days of the show. I attach my show photos, my name, placing and competitor number to make it easy on them when they go through results. I always thank them in advance for taking the time to review my photos and entertain feedback- if they respond I always send a follow up email thanking them again for their critique."


Allison Moyer


"The best way to approach the judges for feedback is always in a professional manner. So take the time to write a nicely composed short email with your name, contestant number, which division and class you were in, and any specific questions you might have. Make sure to attach professional pictures from the show to the email so that they can refer to them. Judges look at hundreds of physiques and can't be expected to remember yours specifically. Include picture of a front, back, and side pose if possible. Also include your phone number just in case they would rather call you. Always be appreciative and accepting of the criticism they give you... after all, your goal should be to improve for next time. I would request feedback within a week of the show so that the judges still have their notes and the show is fresh in their minds. I definitely would not approach any judges AT the show or even over the phone. Sending via email provides them all the information they need and they can respond within their own time frame and not feel rushed. Remember to thank them after they reply!"

Candice Perfect


"I think most of the judges are happy to give you feedback right after the show. Emailing with pictures is always a good idea too.

At some of the shows I've done the judges actually encourage you to approach them after the show."

Shala Singer


"I will always wait until the photos are released on muscular development and then send an email to the judge with photos attached. At events, there are so many competitors, so a week later, they'll need photos to refresh their memory. I don't usually talk to the judges at the event because there is so much going on. They've had a long day and expecting them to provide immediate feedback in a crowded atmosphere may be difficult. An email gives them time to think about the critique and allows them to respond in a time frame that is convenient for them. I've had great luck receiving feedback via email! The judges I've spoken with are very helpful and always want athletes to succeed.

Janessa Mitchell


"Always the week after via email w your stage shots attached. Ask for positive as well as neg so you can work on both Thank them for being a part of the night and your experience there. They will almost always reply to you.

I feel the night of the show they as well as YOU are both mentally and physically exhausted and wouldn't be able to absorb what they tell you. Get some rest and some food and email them with a clear head."

Danae Zaitz




So there you have it folks! The champions seem to have reached a clear consensus. Email is the best way to break the ice, you want to include photos, and you want to include contact information. Manners are huge - don't forget your please & thank you (lol, but seriously!). Also, keep your ear out for judges that want you to approach them after the show, as in Shala's case. Thanks again to the champions -- OUT of 22 approached only 5 REPLIED - that's kind of pitiful, but this advice you're getting is akin to what foods people use to carb up or where to get the best suits. Again, it may not seem like much to you, but this page (not to toot my own horn) is giving you the tools you need to succeed. I'm not about making a message board full of photos and trash talk to get a bunch of schmoes off. This page is for the champions, by the champions, and with a few words here and there from yours truly.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Love 'n Steel

Imagine walking into the gym, down a busy row of store fronts, or just looking up from you empty matini glass - and there she is - your other half. She looks so amazing in this light; she's got long blonde hair, perfect lips, a certain glow all around her, what a pretty smile.. but wait...she's also got guns (arms!), legs (long 'n strong), and she walks with a certain confidence about her - she's 100% feminine, but she's not June Cleaver, she's more like Wonder Woman!

But this is prolly just a phase - this weightlifting thing - will pass. Many men and women who date weight-lifting enthusiasts just don't get it -- it's as much the men dating fit women, as it is average women dating fit guys. And if training isn't viewed as a fad, it may very well be viewed with contempt - and even jealousy. Some [non-training] significant others may feel intimidated to the point they'll make you choose - 'it's me or the gym!'

But enough of what I think. I wanted to know what the champions felt; I wanted to know what they've experienced - in the dating world.


"The gym and being healthy was NOT a big part of my life at all before I met my husband four years ago. He had a much healthier lifestyle when I met him than I did, so when I decided to make health and fitness a major part of my life a little over a year ago, it made it a lot easier because he was very supportive. He has consistently supported me in my fitness journey and rigorous diet/training routine that I have as a competitor. Although he doesn't compete, he closely follows my program (with modifications of course) which makes it sooo much easier for me to stay on track! I have been very lucky to have a spouse who pushes me to be the best version of myself. I do know some women whose significant others are not supportive of their fitness goals, which I know must make it difficult to keep going. If someone you are with is trying to hold you back from bettering yourself, I would seriously consider if it is a healthy relationship. I think women who are interested in competing should be up front about it with the person they are dating/considering dating because it can definitely cause tension if both people are not on the same page!"

Sally Lunsford
NPC Star

(here is a pic of me and husband, Michael)


"When you are single, like me, dating can be very difficult. Finding someone who shares the same passion as you do for working out and eating healthy, can be hard; but my advice would be to not give up what you love and enjoy doing for another person. It might take some time, but to be truly happy with someone, you need to do whatever makes you happy."

Tiffany Reffner
NPC Star


"Fitness has always been a part of my life so it's no surprise that I met my husband at the gym. I'm blessed to have such a supportive partner who will do anything for me. When he and I started dating I told him, there are two things with which i will not let him interfere. My God and my gym and he has been supportive since day one. My advice for single ladies is to be up front about your passion and love for fitness. It's better to find out early on if a man is going to have a problem with your training schedule or your eating habits. Never change for a man. Do what you love and look around while you're doing that...there will likely be plenty of men that share your passion and will support your goals."

Janessa Mitchell
NPC Star


"Fitness has been the biggest part of my life since I was 19. Therefore, it has always been understood how important my own fitness & nutrition are to me to everyone I surround myself with.

If one should date a fellow competitor, there is a great support system from day one to the day you walk on stage. You can lift and do cardio together, and you form a bond that is really special because what you're training for is really special to both of you. However, if one has a bad day and their day is affected, usually yours is too. You simply have to calm that person down and get them back on track. It can be stressful, but only you can decide if it's worth the stress or not. Let's face it--all competitors get cranky towards the end of the show prep, so beware during those last final days! You'll find there are pros and cons of dating another competitor who loves you and wants to see you succeed just as much as themselves, you just have to find a good one!

Then there are those you'll date who don't compete and do not know what it takes to get into that top shape to grace the stage. They truly admire the hard work you put in to look the way you do, and view it as an attractive quality. They see you as a strong, driven individual.

Fitness and nutrition are not just something to do, they are a way of life. My advice would be to integrate time spent together in the gym. Try to help your significant other who could use some tips on form or gaining/losing some pounds. You have to be attracted to who you're dating right? And of course you're concerned about bettering their health because you care about them!

At the end of the day, it shouldn't matter what fitness/nutrition level your significant other is on, it's about the love you share for each other. Try to remember the qualities which you adore about each other, breathe deeply when you're frustrated, communicate, and try to be understanding should silly issues arise. They will understand you're feeling a little deprived and moody as the show gets closer. Your significant other will be your biggest cheerleader,so welcome their support and address the fact how good it makes you feel that they truly care."

Laura Ridings
NPC Star


"My feedback on your post about dating - When I decided to make fitness and competing in NPC bikini competitions a full time lifestyle last year, I assumed dating wouldn’t be an option for me. I was single and living in Seattle at the time, so I had all the time in the world to devote to training, food prep, and myself. I poured my heart and soul into my new lifestyle and embraced it, but honestly felt if I tried to date AND be committed to my rigorous training, I would be thrown off balance and destroy all my fitness goals. I avoided dating like the plague out of sheer fear that I’d lose sight of my goals. Over time I started moving forward with my goals, but was admittedly lonely.

When I joined Team Bombshell I September of 2011, I had the opportunity to attend a fitness camp in Daytona Beach, FL and meet dozens of other women who compete – AND maintain healthy relationships. Could it be? You can compete AND be in a relationship? I spent a lot of time asking these amazing women all kinds of questions and the biggest trend I noticed was one thing – INVOLVE your partner. Make him feel important. Pay attention to him. Appreciate him! It’s hard when we’re so focused on ourselves and our training to remember someone else and their needs. With that in mind, I opened myself up to dating again and actually met a great guy who really supports my lifestyle.

I’ve found success in involving him in food prep (he’s great on the grill!), and working out together has also been a great way to keep myself feeling on target. He’ll attend his first NPC show in March with me – and while it’s nice to have someone around to tan my back, it’s even better to have love and support in the audience. While my lifestyle can be a little hard to take at times, I’ve found a lot of success in remembering SHOW my appreciation for him, do little things for HIM to make his life easier, and never stop being grateful all the love and support he gives me. It can work, you just have to be open with each other about your needs right out of the gate and communicate when you feel things heading south."

Kerri Baker
NPC Star


Marilena EchoHawk Speaks!

"The show was the FIRST ever IFBB PRO Women's Physique show! The Desert Muscle Classic held in Mesa Arizona; the Promoter was Stryker. I Placed 2nd place! My Tan was done by Liquid Sun Rays, Posing /diet was done by my trainer/coach Allen Watkins.

The contest prep was a little more intesnse this show, due to it being my first PRO show and also the new division WOmens Physique. We really were not sure if the judging was going to go on the harder/leaner/more muscular side, or a little softer. so I had to put all my trust (which I always do) in my trainer Allen Watkins. All the girls in the competition came ready to battle and all had great physiques, some were a little more ripped, softer but muscular, leaner but muscular, but OVERALL THEY ALL looked amazing.. The great thing about this show was every single female on that stage was cheering for one another, the camaraderie was like I've never seen before. Being on a pro stage and sharing it with that select group of women is definitely always going to be a good memory, and I made some good new friends out of it!

ALways a special thanks to my daughter, Brooklyn, for being one of my best supporters, and always my family, friends, and all my employees at work for understanding the crazy dieting lol..."

Marilena EchoHawk
IFBB Women's Physique Pro


Thursday, February 23, 2012

New Covers and Yummy Protein Bars

NPC Star, Janessa Mitchel will be the new face of FigureBikini.com on Facebook. She will be on the cover for what's left of this month + the entire month of March. Janessa is only the third lady to be on the cover, with Ruthie Harrison being first, followed by Abby Clark.


NPC Teen Champion, Miriam Looney, will be on the cover of FigureBikini.com on Twitter. She will be on the cover for the remainder of the month + the entire month of March. Thanks to last month's cover, NPC Star Hunnika Rodriguez.

If you haven't "liked" or "followed" our pages, please do so! You'll really help us get the word out!


Darielle Gaines is a top level NPC Bikini Star. Aaron Singerman is the host of Access Bodybuilding on RxMuscle.com. They are both sponsored by Robert DiMaggio's IronMagLabs!


Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Creepy Situations

Bodybuilding and physique sports may not be in the mainstream, but you wouldn't know that by talking to the fans. Whether its buying magazines, supplements, website memberships, t-shirts, or simply going to bat for the stars on blogs, message boards, or even on facebook, the fans pull all the stops for the athtletes they look up to most. But some fans go a little too far. And some athletes either run for the hills - or - they capitalize on the sludge.

For many years, Women's Bodybuilding, was considered to be dying on the vine. Industry insiders did their best to ignore the Division, meanwhile the sport's talking heads (most notably Bob Cicherillo) took cheap shots at the sport and its economic viability. Nonetheless, no matter how tough times were, some Women Bodybuilders were still making the big bucks. If you're not familiar with Lift & Carry, Wrestling for Hire, or raunchy paid website features, any ole google search will educate you on the matter. Other women, like IFBB Pro Cathy LeFrancois, refused to degrade themselves. They kept marketing themselves, got kickass sponsors like Gaspari Nutrition, kept competing, and kept living in the sport they loved so much.

But just because the ladies don't welcome - or appreciate - the comments, some fans just keep dishing out the unwanted comments and behavior.

It's no shocker that out of half a dozen champions I polled, only one brave woman participated in this article. Let's see what she had to say!


"As a woman that ventures beyond the cardio row and group classes at the gym and regularly weight trains, I hear a lot of stupid comments from men. Perhaps men are unprepared to interact with females in a male dominated atmosphere making them appear ignorant. Or maybe they really are as dumb as they come across (I hope for their sake that this isn’t the case).

For example, once a man tapped me on the shoulder, mid-set (PLEASE DON’T EVER DO THIS!), while I was doing curls to ask me “Are you curling twenty pounds?” I finished my set and simply said “Yes”, although what I really wanted to say was – Does the dumbbell have a 20 on it? Do you think that means 20 pounds? Use your brain dimwit.

Or there was the time when a man stopped me while jumping rope to ask me if I was on a jump rope team. Do jump rope teams existing outside of elementary school? Perhaps there is an idea for a new Olympic sport (sarcasm). He then proceeded to ask me if I could teach him how to jump rope. Seriously? All you do is jump over the rope. If you are over the age of twelve and don’t know how to jump rope, you need more help than I am able or willing to provide.

And my all time favorite ridiculous comment from a man at the gym –

-Man: “Hey, how do you build all of your mass? You’re jacked!”
-Me: “Um, thanks…I just eat right and work hard” (While thinking MASS?? I’m not that big….I’m a bikini competitor!)
-Man: “Wow, you’d be good for breeding linebackers!”
-Me: Speechless….

I hardly think that my 5’4” 130 lb (offseason) frame would be ideal for breeding NFL linebackers. On second thought, this is a wonderful income producing idea…I could quit my job and focus on producing world class athletes! (JOKING). I’m sure the man meant his comment as a compliment but I doubt that any woman out there would like to hear that she would be an ideal for “breeding” anything, especially linebackers.

These are only a few of the many comments I’ve heard over the years. I know most women say that if you wear a hat and headphones people will leave you alone. I’d say this only works about 50% of the time. You will always have those few “new” men at the gym that haven’t figured out the social rules and don’t have a clue that we are there to work, not chat about breeding prospects. My best advice for women that kill it in the weight room is to be prepared for the looks, comments, and questions and keep a sense of humor about it. We’re breaking into a world that was once male dominated and they just don’t know how to interact with us yet."


Janessa Mitchell
NPC Star


Wednesday, February 1, 2012

The Tanning Question

We all know that tanning is probably not the best thing for your skin or your overall health; however, when you compete in physique sports, the skin tone that tanning provides is certainly unique. There are comparable spray tan options, or at least they're marketed as such, but many competitors will use the spray tan option in addition to tanning -- not in lieu of it. And tanning isn't really an issue just for light skinned people, because even darker skinned people need to tan just as much. Quite frankly, it's one of those catch-all steps in most competitors' contest prep.

But a very significant question is - how much tanning do you really need? Do you need to get what's called a "base tan" (usually by going 3-4 days a week for two weeks) and then maintaining it by at least one weekly visit thereafter? Or can you get by with tanning for a short period of time and trying to get dark that way. Are their pro's and cons to the two approaches? As usual, I went to the champions to give me their insight, but I highly encourage others to leave comments here and/or on our various pages on Facebook and Twitter.


"I never get a "real" tan. I have a family history of skin cancer and it is not worth the risk. On top of that, who wants wrinkles? I found that it's best to get airbrushed at the competition. After two applications, my skin is the perfect tone. Please know that this is possible for everyone because I naturally have very fair skin. I tried tanning myself with various sublease tanning products in my first couple of competitions, but I was never able to get dark enough. Airbrushing by the pros is definitely the way to go. Best thing is, at the end of the night, most of it washes right off and I'm back to looking like normal!

A very good friend of mine was just diagnosed with skin cancer at the age of 35 and her doctors told her it was because of her use of tanning beds. She recently had surgery to have the cancer removed...it was on her eyelid and required some work from a plastic surgeon to recreate an eyelid. She now has no bottom eyelashes. Thankfully, they were able to cut all of it off but she is still recovering and is extremely concerned about the changes in her appearance. I know that not everyone will have that terrible luck, but in my opinion, being tan is not worth the risks. I always recommend wearing sunscreen and taking care of your skin. Looking tan now isn't worth the health risk later."

Janessa Mitchell
NPC Bikini Star
NPC Texas State Naturals
Class B - 1st Place


"Christian; Good question! I used to tan frequently, almost obsessively, and haven't for the better part of a year and a half now. If I am required to be tanned for a photo shoot I do a cosmetic tan (Mystic etc), but aside from that I take the utmost care with my skin. I'm Irish, so I'm fair skinned by nature and tend to burn easily. After a pre-cancerous skin mass was located on my lower back two years ago I made the deicison to step away from tanning beds.

I use JanTana at every show and have been more then thrilled with their product and their staff. I find their product to be the easiest and most versatile to work with whether applying myself or have someone apply it/spray it on me."

Allison Moyer
NPC Figure Star
2011 NPC North American Championships
Class E - 1st Place


"I only get out in the sun on vacation only (once/year) and with sun screen. Like Janessa, I have very fair skin and have had medical issues regarding skin cancer - see big scar on my right tricep:( It's just not worth jeopardizing your life! Mystic tans for photo shoots, Jana Tana at National shows and Liquid Sun Rayz for local shows."

Jessica True
NPC Bikini Champion
(1st & Overall – 2009 Bluegrass Muscle Classic)


I'd also like to reiterate that if you still haven't "liked" FigureBikini.com on Facebook, you can do so right here by scrolling to the top of the page. Following us on Twitter will also go a long way into spreading the word. Finally, I'd like to share a great video I shot last night at Powerhouse - East Lansing, featuring Middleweight bodybuilder Jeff Vasque and Women's Physique competitor Elizabeth Crenshaw. They are both preparing for the Lansing Grand Prix, to be held on March 31, 2012 in East Lansing, MI. Thank you to all for reading, especially to the great champions that lend their help and offer such awesome input!


Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Wedding Bells & Updates

Not too long ago, Janessa Mitchell did major battle at the 2011 NPC Texas State Naturals - taking a strong class victory, which she had to wrestle away from two dozen other competitors. And while the sky's the limit the for this great champion in 2012, I wanted to take this opportunity to congratulate her on getting married!

I saw the news on a Facebook update, with many well-wishers lining up to drop kind words. I'd like to thank Janessa for all her help with FigureBikini.com and wish her the very best - in life & on stage!


A Huge Thanks to Shannon Dey's Team Bombshell, as well as friends like Ruthie Harrison and Abby Clark for making yesterday our most popular day in the site's eight month history! We logged in over 1,000 hits for the day. I can't wait to see what 2012 brings, and I know that I will continue to see great physiques, as well as classy champions from Team Bombshell!


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Sunday, December 4, 2011

Janessa Mitchell - A Shooting Star!

Janessa Mitchell
Age: 27
Ht: 5’4” 1/4
Contest Weight: 120
Regular Weight: 130
Hometown: Plano, Texas
www.facebook.com/npcjanessamitchell

How I got started competing:

In November of 2010, the love of my life was deployed on his first tour of Afghanistan. I knew the deployment would be difficult; I knew I’d be scared and worried. However, I underestimated how hard it would be. The only people who really understand are the ones who have experienced it. I wish I could explain it to you…but it’s impossible to put into words the feelings and thoughts that occur. The only way I can begin to explain it is to say that we women back home all go a little crazy. We all go crazy in our own little ways in order to find an escape from the stress and pain of being separated from our partner, never knowing if we will get to hold them in our arms again. Some women drink. Some resort to drugs. Some find comfort in the arms of others. It’s easy for outsiders to look down on all of this behavior. I used to. I am in no way saying that it is right or ok…but now I know….we all go a little crazy.

Luckily, I found comfort in my passion for fitness and health. I have been active my entire life. I played sports as a child and through high school. In college, I hated being around my roommate so I avoided her by hitting the gym at least twice a day. Being healthy and fit has always just been a part of who I am.

My love for fitness has grown and matured as I have sought out new ways to challenge my body and my mind. Weightlifting, running, yoga, pilates…you name it, I’ve at least tried it. In 2007, I became certified to teach yoga and started teaching classes on the weekends and in the evenings. I was a banker by day but a certified gym junkie by night. Being in the gym made me whole. The gym was my identity.

My love for fitness led me to the love of my life, Adam. We met at the gym and he in every way is the man of my dreams. The day he got on that plane for Afghanistan, I started my countdown for his return. 210 days. Time never passed so slowly. It was torture. Nightmares, sleepless nights, constant worry, complete misery. It seemed like the more I counted down the days, the slower time seemed to pass.

One day in March of 2011 (around 60 long days left until his homecoming), I decided I needed something to keep my mind busy. I needed a challenge that would make me race against the clock rather than watch it tick by slowly. I decided to sign up for my first NPC competition. Initially, I decided I should do the NPC Texas Shredder in May of 2011. It would give me 9 weeks to prepare, which seemed like plenty. It was a logical choice (typical for me since I tend to over-plan everything). The NPC Ronnie Coleman Classic was two weeks away in Dallas and I thought I could go watch it to see what all of this is about. It was all planned out. But, that’s when the CRAZY came out. Two weeks before the Ronnie Coleman Classic, I said, what the hell, the deadline to sign up is today. I’m doing it. I had no idea what I was doing. No clue what to expect. I temporarily lost my mind and it was the BEST thing that could have happened to me at that moment. For two weeks I dieted and trained and for once since November, time flied by.I didn’t place, but I was ok with that. I was happy that I had the courage to get up on stage. I was happy with the way I looked after only two weeks. Most of all, I was ecstatic that time passed so quickly. I signed up for the Texas Shredder in Austin, TX and seven weeks later on May 7th, I was on the stage again. This time placing 6th! I was shocked! I continued to on to place 4th at the NPC Heart of Texas, 2nd at the NPC Central Texas Showdown, and 1st at the NPC Texas State Naturals.

I am so thankful for what the NPC has done for me. The competitions helped me control the crazy. They made the time pass quickly. On June 1st of this year Adam returned home and the moment I was in his arms again was just as indescribable as the feelings one gets when their loved one leave. Only this time…it’s the most wonderful moment imaginable.

A typical day’s menu looks like this:

Meal #1: egg whites, oat meal, almond milk, and Professional Supplements Diamond Whey Isolate
Meal #2: Almonds
Meal #3: 4 oz of chicken breast, ½ sweet potato, spinach
Meal #4: Oatmeal with Professional Supplements Diamond Whey Isolate (I mix them together for what I call “ProOats”
Meal #5: 4 oz of fish, asparagus, ½ sweet potato
Meal #6: 1 Scoop of Professional Supplements Diamond Whey Isolate and sometimes a handful of pecans.

I also drink tons of water throughout the day and enjoy green tea every morning.

People I need to thank:

I want to thank most importantly my boyfriend Adam. He has inspired me and motivated me to follow my dreams and forget my fears. I want to thank Professional Supplements for recently becoming my sponsor. I feel honored to have such a reputable company supporting me with products that I actually use and believe in. The company was started by the late Art Atwood and his legacy lives on through his incredible products thanks to his family and close friends. I also want to thank my mother who would drive from her home in Oklahoma to cheer me on at the competitions and even made a couple of my suits! I am so incredibly blessed to have such an amazing support group in my life.

Plans for 2012:

I am so excited for the 2012 NPC season to start. While I am enjoying my off-season, I’m ready to get back on stage to show my ever-improving physique. I plan to hit the stage on March 10th at the West Texas Classic, a national qualifier. This will be the last show before my boyfriend deploys again for Afghanistan and I hope to make him proud. If I am so blessed to qualify for nationals, you’ll see me hit the stage sometime next summer! Otherwise, I am going to travel the great State of Texas with the goal of always being better than I was the last time. People can also find me at the Professional Supplements booths that will be set up at competitions throughout 2012. I will be handing out samples of the various products they offer, including Karbolyze, the new improved Karbolyn formula. I am so excited to meet all of the athletes! These events are filled with the most incredible people I know!